In my last post, I made reference to my submissive being a SAM. THis got me thinking about our relationship, and how it appears to others.
Many in the lifestyle have seen my submissive and I together. Many of those (Dom/mes in particular) have expressed surprise and sometimes disapproval of our relationship. Why, you might ask?
Well, she's a SAM. For those less familiar with things, let me explain. She is, in theory, a submissive and a masochist. A submissive should do the will of the Dominant. Failure to meet this requirement can lead to punishment in various forms. A masochist enjoys pain &/or punishment. You may already be seeing where this is going......
So my beloved submissive is a willful sprite. And rebellious by nature. I enjoy this. She's a handful, and I like it that way. And that is what gets the disapproval. They see the challenges, and the verbal sparring. The sticking out of the tongue (And a sexy little tongue it is...). They don't see so much more.
They don't see her at my knee, even in public. They don't see the nuzzle in quiet moments, or the half whispered 'Yes, Milord'. These things, from one so contrary to service, are worth more than those other Doms will ever know.
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By the looks we get when we're out and about, among others in the lifestyle, I can sometimes see both the disapproval and the bewilderment. I worry at times that my behavior reflects poorly on You, that people assume that I misbehave out of lack of respect. Nothing could be further from the truth... I could never submit to someone I didn't truly consider my superior in many ways. And I could certainly never submit to anyone I didn't respect. Bottom to? yes... Submit? no, never.
And I know that many Doms would never put up with me as You do, but on the flip side, I would never put up with a Dom who couldn't accept me as I am - SAM and all. ;)
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